Whenever someone reads a magazine article which offers "Tips & Advice" on Dating, it always centers upon the woman's needs. But, of course, the problem goes far beyond that. Society teaches men that great efforts must be made to impress the opposite sex. Basically, this happens to be the overall standard. So, we always hear people telling guys how to spark her interest. And, this requires that he follow a long, detailed list of suggestions.
Interestingly, when videos & books give advice to women, they tell her "what to look for" in a man. SO, it's really the same expectation, by a different name.
I've included a few examples, to demonstrate this point. However, there are many Videos which are Not included on this list, simply because I found them to be too negative & downright disgusting. You've all seen such material, where women start describing the "Do's & Don'ts" of dating. In which case, they all jointly describe everything about men, which does not meet her approval. These videos , books, & magazine articles are quite severe.
In the above video, the narrator makes a few remarks which truly represent a double-standard. It would be unheard of, for a man to speak in this type of egotistical manner (without him being severely criticized). Yet, this lady casualty talks about ways which boys should impress her. A common expression spoken by ladies states "If you wanna get anywhere with me, then you should act this way". ETC, ETC, ETC. "This gets you nowhere" etc. etc.
There's one point to mention.
Despite insulting men on a routine basis, many women also seek a guy with "confidence". This is merely her way of requiring him to approach her, first. In other words, men are expected to place themselves into a vulnerable position.
Finally, whenever a woman claims to seek "confidence" from a man, this remark is very deceitful. In truth, she's trying to make herself look good. SO, it's not really for his sake, but instead, to strengthen public viewpoint of women. After all, she seeks positive qualities. Interestingly, she rarely speaks highly of men. Until, the moment when she becomes a perspective partner. Then, suddenly, she begins complimenting men for their intellegence, and what-have-you.
Once again, this really makes her look good.
As you can see: girls begin showing this mentality from a young age. As usual..... The Tips are always given to boys, on how to gain her acceptance. These Videos aren't necessarily offensive. However, the sexist mentality remains evident whenever "dating Tips" advice are given. ..... It's all about "the girl".... Ironically, "Women's Groups" claim that the typical relationship revolves around men... But, the truth is plain to see.........
Although many instructional videos are not the least bit offensive. They still offer advice to men, on how to impress the opposite sex.
And, in every case, she's the one who decides whether he meets that criteria.
Once again, the woman is giving advice on how men should act. This video is Non-offensive. However, it does indicate an overall social standard.
Also, regarding the claim that women seek confidence from a man. this is a deceptive remark often made by women. It's directly related to monetary value.
In other words, she wants him to be ruthless in the business world.
Although the above video is perfectly acceptable, there are many videos & books which are far more extreme.
This video has been removed by the author. However, you can clearly see the heading which states that she's telling ladies exactly what to look for in a man. Even though, the video was supposed to be made for men. Thus, it still provides evidence suggesting this is a standard practice. (Also note, the woman's physical appearance is average at best).
So, even though the video as removed, you can sense an overall double-standard. If someone gives 'dating tips' to women, why would she advise women to seek specific features from a man ??? This happens to be an example of gender-specific roles.
(this brief information was written when the video was publicly available. Thus, it's difficult to verify our claims:) ---- In the above video, this woman is giving advice to other women. She clearly states that fact, in her opening sentence.
But, despite this, she begins telling women precisely what to look for, in a man. .
(disclaimer: this video is not offensive. However, this happens to be an example of feminine privilege.)
And, women casually exercise this positive self-image.
This particular woman gave numerous expectations from men, and, not vice versa.
He's The Man !!
Note: There's A brief instance of strong language, in this next video.
The Youtube account of Bill1224602 was suspended. However, he's agreed to re-up the following video on a new channel. His efforts were greatly appreciated. Now, with that aside; Bill's videos seem perfectly reasonable. Thus, his Youtube account shouldn't have been suspended.
Excellent video. You needn't derive the same exact conclusion. But, it's easy to grasp the overall message.
Plus, a few added remarks......... It would more accurately say that women are "privileged" rather than suggesting that she has the power. The difference is, men voluntarily give numerous advantages to women. This same rule applies, even if the woman is less attractive. She's still come to expect this type of treatment from men.
Also, there's a difference between being "PICKY" and being too "Judgmental". Women are more than just "picky". They judge everything quite harshly. Here's a few examples: Let's suppose: I'm seeking a meaningful relationship. It seems, no matter which personality I express, they'll still find fault with me.
SO, if I'm a very nice person, women would often JUDGE me as being 'weak".
Or, If the man is friendly, she assumes that I'm merely infatuated by her physical appearance. Or, she believes he's a spineless brown-noser.
If the man asserts himself, she acts angry & disgusted.
Or, perhaps, he's shy, in which case, women will typically lose interest.
She prefers him to assert himself toward her, but then, she accuses him of harrassment. Even though, she typicaly shuns the passive approach.
Hey, it sounds to me,,,,, ....women are extremely Judgmental.
I could give countless more examples....... but, you already get the message......
If a marriage fails, ........ she always gets the "better end of the deal".
While the situation gets rather tough for the man......
.....I suppose, That's life. And, the courts will remain bias unless the appropriate action is taken....
In the Dating World: She teaches men ....
how to impress, politeness, behavior, what to say, how to act, what she expects, ....and, what to do...
LET"S NOW ASK: Which advice is NEVER given by a woman ????
You'll Never hear this Simple, yet rational suggestion from anyone:
Hey guys: Just Be "Yourself".
.....That's all you need to do !!!! and, don't let any girl convince you, that you're a loser......
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She teaches men ....
